Sharing History and Tradition with our Children

How early impressions, made a lasting impression for one little girl.

 

Saturday was my eldest’s second visit to Ivor Wynne Stadium. Browsing through some old images of her last trip to Ivor Wynne, going by her uncanny resemblance to our two year old (or vice versa), I realized it had already been two years since the first time daddy shared this very special place with his then little girl.

Now almost four, packing for our day trip was much less laborious. No stroller, no thermos full of warm milk, no toys, diapers or any such supplies. Just a camera, binoculars, and a big foam Tiger claw.

Dressed in our Oskee wee wee best, hand and hand without a care in the world, we walked over to the game early to enjoy the family day inflatable festivities at the adjoining Brian Timmins Stadium prior to the game.

“Look at that daddy” she admired, pointing over and beyond King George School at the stadium lights that shoot high above the rooftops.

“That’s where we are going, honey”, I smiled. If the anticipation of taking my girl hadn’t been enough, the excitement in her voice as we neared Ivor Wynne, had me grinning from ear to ear.

Before we left, my daughter had drawn a picture that she wanted to give to the ticket person at the football game. She handed it to the woman at the Will Call window, who with a big smile, expressed that ‘they don’t get many drawings’, and how ‘the walls could use some color’.

My daughter shyly smiled, but then started to cry; big sad tears and all. Apparently, daddy’s choice of footwear; purple Dora the Explorer Crocs, were not all that suitable for our 20 minute walk over to 75 Balsam Ave. She had a blister on her ankle from where the strap had rubbed up against her bare skin.

The very kind and sympathetic Will Call employees scrounged around in search of a band-aid, meanwhile a couple of sincere cheerleaders stopped to ask my daughter what was the matter. She stopped crying and looked up at the two girls standing over her with big, bright smiles. I imagined to her, they were like princesses which of course, are any girls favourite.

The game was still an hour-and-a-half from kick-off, and the Tiger-Cats organization had already turned a negative “I want to go home”, to a positive “I just met a princess” and “I have a new band-aid”.

TC (Tiger-Cat), one of two mascots (and our oldest), would be my daughters next positive impression at Ivor Wynne Stadium. Well, first was the balloon lady who made her a pretty flower, but as we rested in the grass amongst the inflatable carnival, she nervously watched on and up, as hoards of people surrounded her and TC, for some photo opportunities.

My daughter had been scared of both TC and our other mascot, Stripes, at her first ever game, and two years later, there was still a bit of an uneasy reserve as TC stood next to her. When he walked by her though and moved on to the next crowd of admirers, a giddy smile returned to her tear-filled face. Suddenly, forgetting her boo boo, she watched his every move as he wondered around the Brian Timmins grounds. For the rest of the day, she would continually ask me where the Tiger-Cats were. To her, the players on the field were just a bunch of men running around the field. TC and Stripes were the Tiger-Cats.

The injury kept my girl from enjoying the bouncy pre-game festivities, so we headed back into the stadium, found a bench under the bleachers, and enjoyed a hot dog before the game.

Carrying my wounded warrior, we headed up to our section 30 seats, and settled in with plenty of time to go before kick-off. Of course, the 5th largest outdoor video board in North America was the first thing that caught her eye.

“Daddy! Look at that.”

I took the camera out and the two of us spent the rest of the afternoon taking turns documenting our game day experiences.

There was so much for her curious eyes to take in as she looked around the stadium, first noticing the parachuter’s. She couldn’t understand why someone would willingly jump out of a plane, although she got a kick out of all the excitement as they made their way to centre field.

She admired the other planes from the Wartime Heritage Museum as well, never having seen an airplane fly so close to the ground except at an airport. Even I thought that was pretty cool.

The flag ceremony is impressive for adults and children alike, and my daughter loved seeing all those people holding onto the edges and gathered underneath the Canada flag that spanned the better part of the length and width of the field. It reminded her of a game her and her classmates played in her pre-school.

My shoeless babe had all but forgotten about her wound by this time, and was in awe of all the people and excitement surrounding her. The cheering, the music, and the Tiger roar. “Row!”, I always say to my girls at home. “Tiger-Cats.”

I am trying.

Just before half-time, we escaped downstairs for a bathroom break and some sight seeing. My daughter got quite a kick out of the many characters that make up the game day crowd, from funny wigs, a ‘big man’ on stilts, cheese heads, and of course, the now infamous (corn on the)‘Cobb’ heads inspired by our star running back, DeAndra’ Cobb.

“Look daddy. That man has cheese on his head.” I can only imagine what was going on in my little girls mind, as she took all of this in. When you really pause for a moment and look around, the football crowd is quite a motley crew.

“That’s silly”, she concluded with an equally as silly chuckle.

 Later on in the game, I remembered that I had brought my binoculars and from that moment, the search was on for TC and Stripes. She knew where one or the other were pretty much the rest of the game. 

“Look daddy! I found the Tiger-Cats.”

Besides her endless search for the striped mascots, another early game day impression had my daughter pointing to the Cheerleaders dancing on Tiger Vision and on the field, every time it was their turn to dance.

“Those are the girls you met before the game. Do you remember?

“Ya daddy”, she said with an exuberant smile.

Although the opening day return of the Tabbies wasn’t the outcome the home crowd had anticipated all winter long, Marcus Thigpen once again kept fans on the edge of their seats for the second week in a row, with a kick return to the house, and a second TD on offence. He has certainly become an early fan favourite this year.

We waited until most of the crowd exited, before making our way downstairs and back over to the inflatable carnival. After testing out a couple of ‘rides’, we grabbed a drink for the journey home.

It was nice being able to walk to the stadium together, and to enjoy rare moments between my big girl and I.

The day could have ended before it really began, but thanks to a certain Will Call lady and two very pretty and concerned cheerleaders who took a moment to comfort my little princess, it was a remarkable day for daddy and daughter.

Thank-you, Ticats.

One more cherished Ivor Wynne Stadium memory on what was another Beautiful Night(afternoon) for Football.

 

Daugher’s view of the game

Ivor Wynne Is Already a Great Stadium Location

My eldest daughter on her first to IWS

The folowing, is a link to my latest article as published on ‘Raise the Hammer’ in response to the dilemna surrounding the proposed new Hamilton stadium site.

There are some great comments following my story from many others who are dissapointed that our beloved stadium wasn’t even considered in this whole 2015 Pan Am Games process.

Below, is a video that coincides with this story. This presentation exhibits what is special about the area surrounding the current stadium, and it’s high accessibility to downtown and multiple highways.

As well, the video shows how we could utilize adjacent lands (if we must build a new stadium), to construct a new venue in the neighborhood that Ivor Wynne currently calls home.

The Road to Perfection

Front and Back Cover Art

 The New England Patriots were 35 seconds from it. Indianapolis gave up on it. This is my Road to Perfection. 

  

“I was alone when it happened. Sitting nervously on the edge of the couch. Heart racing as if the fate of that moment was in my hands.

The house was quiet. My little girl already counting Patriot wins in her sleep. 1, 2, 3 … 15. My wife, upstairs secretly checking the score between commercial breaks of one of her nighttime soaps.

 Giants up to the challenge. Patriots down 21-16 at the half. Still trailing 28-16 early in the third. Pats close in on the lead. 28-23 Giants at the end of the third. Many NFL records broken by New England. Patriots back on top. Pats up the lead to 10 late in the fourth quarter. Giants pull within three with just over a minute left. On side kick is no good. Patriots win.

 And so my story began.”

~ 

I started writing this story moments after the New England Patriots became the first team in NFL history, to go 16-0 on their season. That was December of 2007. 

The following February I ventured off to Boston to finish this story, with the hopes of being in the heart of the city while Beantown fans celebrated their place in history. 

Super Bowl XLII had a different ending in mind however, leaving me lost for words and no ending to this tale.

Two years later, during the 2009-2010 season, two teams seemed destined to equal what the 2007 Patriots had done, and so the thoughts of reviving this old story once again surfaced.

Of course, I hoped neither team would match what my beloved Pats had done only two years prior, but when the Indianapolis Colts gave up on perfection late in the season, I was suddenly disappointed.

I thought the Colts giving up on perfection was the angle I had been waiting for to finish my story, but as I made my final edits, I realized that I already had my ending two years ago.  Indianapolis’ fall from perfection as it turned out (although related in many ways), was actually a separate story. So that is how I ultimately packaged this short story release. As two separate tales.

Perhaps it is too late after the fact to publish this story. I am sure that 16-0 run has been written about one too many times already, but as I re-worked my story, I came to realize that the 2007 season, was actually the inspiration for my blog – A Beautiful Night for Football dot com.

I had always thought it had been the CFL’s Alouettes shellacking of the Hamilton Tiger-Cats in the 2008 season opener, that had inspired the creation of my blog – supporting your team when all hope seemed lost, but it was actually the enjoyment that I once again felt towards football as I watched the New England Patriots Road to Perfection, that started it all. For this reason, I knew I had to finish this tale that talks about where my passion for football began, and tells of my undying love for Canadian Football.

My sub line for A Beautiful Night for Football (or ABNFF for short), is ‘a POSITIVEly Canadian Football Blog’ – positive in caps relating to my goal to always highlight the positive side of all my stories. Really though, my blog is more about my affection for football in general.

So, long after the Arizona dust settled after Super Bowl XLII, here is my story. A tale about my love for football, my love for the Patriots, my affection for my hometown of Hamilton, ON Canada, the CFL Tiger-Cats, Ivor Wynne Stadium, and most of all, my undying love for the CFL.

I hope you enjoy my trip down the I90 to one of my favourite US cities. The home of the Bruins, the Red Sox, the Patriots, and the Celtics. Beantown. Cheers town. My favourite sports town. Boston, Massachusetts.

 I LOVE this game.

You can read my story here. It is also available from the same location for download to any and all of your hand held media devices from your new iPad, to your Blackberry. The full-color PDF version can be viewed here, or send me an email at lawrencethomas@shakingthetree.ca if you would like me to email you a free printable copy.

I’d love to hear what you think.

Cheers,

Grey Cup 2009 – Wishing I was there – There in Social Media Spirit.

I have never been to Grey Cup. I am not sure why not, but it is one championship I have never been to.

I was at the first ever Word Series game played north of the border, seen Ray Bourque score one final time in New Jersey in the 2001 Stanely Cup finals. I drove down to Boston to watch what I was sure would be the Patriots going 19-0; hoping for a Super Bowl hometown party like never before. I was also at game seven of the Aeros and Bulldogs in the Calder Cup finals, when Hamilton set a record for the largest attendance in a Cup finals.

The only time in memory that Hamilton hosted a Grey Cup, I was the best man for my cousin in Pennsylvania so really, that is as close as I have gotten to making a Grey Cup. That was until this year.

With all the hype of this being a historic finals, I became curious as to what my Airmiles could get me. As it turned out, not only did I have enough to fly round trip to Calgary, but they were having a 50% off Airmiles, so I could have stayed three nights for free as well. I knew the game was sold out, but I thought I might be able to get a decent ticket if I looked hard enough. Unfortunately, the cheapest I found on StubHub, was over $350 dollars. I have always been a last minute planner; that 2001 New Jersey trip among the many of those crazy last minute adventures, but with a young family now, an trip to Alberta would have to wait until next year.

I network with quite a few CFL fans from across Canada on sites like Facebook and Twitter, and through these platforms, I almost feel like I am there. Well, not quite, but I have enjoyed all the updates as these folks pack their bags, board their planes, and attended various Grey Cup week events. Laughed at their uploaded photos from Calgary, and their funny comments about parties in their hotel rooms playing games like beer pong (not sure what that is but I plan to find out next year), discussing their hangovers and now on game day, tweeting about the game and chatting with one another through various social media sites, from around the stadium, and across Canada, the United States, and around the world; for Canadian Football fans living abroad.

So as I write this post, Grey Cup 2009 is in half-time, Jim Cuddy and Blue Rodeo are rocking the centre stage. I have probably posted 20-30 tweets, I have way too many tabs open in Firefox, including Twitter, Facebook, my blog, my email, CFL.ca, adding new Tweeters and sending and receiving pm’s, looking at all the great pics from the CFL crazy fans I have met through the A Beautiful Night For Football site, and most of all, watching the much anticipated and so far living up to the hype, 2009 Grey Cup in Calgary Alberta.

I may not be there, but I am there in Social Media spirit. And hey, Grey Cup is a trending topic. It truly is A Beautiful Night for 3-down, out in the elements, crazy canuck style, Football.

Thanks to all those I have the pleasure to network with, for sharing all the great photos and the funny status updates and tweets this week. I really wish I could have been there, but it’s been fun living vicariously through all of you. There is one thing for sure, you have all played a big part in selling this great Canadian tradition to me. I’ll be there in Edmonton next year. When do tickets go on sale?

Good luck to the Riders and Als, and enjoy the game.

This is OUR game for sure and I am proud of it.

2009 Eastern Semi-Final – Turning it Around

Painting on Balsam

Painting on Balsam

That sucked.

I am sure that was the mutual feeling amongst the Ti-Cats faithful Monday morning.

From that first story I posted on the ABNFF site, I have tried to focus on the positive. There were a couple of moments during Sunday’s game however, that brought out a little negativity in me. The first one being down by eleven points late in the fourth quarter, and of course, the moment the masses realized that all of our second chances had been used up. This wasn’t the way our first home playoff appearance in 8 years was supposed to end.

Now that I have that out of my system, when it comes to finding the positives in Sunday’s entire game day experience, it’s a matter of where do I start, rather than what do I say.

I am embarrassed as a Tiger-Cat fan and as a fan of the CFL in general, to say that until this Sunday past, I had never partaken in a tailgate party at Scott Park field. I have tossed the leather around and taken in some pre-game bands at the soccer field adjacent Ivor Wynne  (Brian Timmis Stadium), but I had never witnessed first hand, the full Hamilton home game experience.

My buddy Steve picked up our tickets from the Tigertown store earlier in the week, so that part of our day had already been taken care of. We also made plans to meet up at my place for around 10:30 in the morning, to soak up as much of the Lot J playoff pre-game  hoopla  as possible.

I had been fighting a cold the entire week and much of the weekend before; popping vitamins and trying to get plenty of rest, so I could truly enjoy a long awaited taste of late fall football. I woke up game day feeling great. I was ready by just after 10; eager about the days events. Unfortunately for my apologetic friend, he slept in, so when I was finally able to wake him from his slumber, it was around 11:30. I couldn’t blame him though. It was the weekend. My kids are up at the crack of 6:30 so I had no excuses not to be ready.

I walked over to the stadium ahead of him with a hungry belly, as I had been waiting to fill it with some of the great eats I have heard about from my Box J Boy neighbor.

Music filled the east end air, as I made my way to Ivor Wynne Stadium and across the street to Lot J; following my nose to the mixed smells of breakfast and lunch. Back bacon, sausages, hamburgers, and large cuts of roast pig; mostly just a carcass by the time I made my rounds of the parking lot.

I sauntered through the clouds of smoke wafting from under event tents and open mini-van tailgates. There were representatives from groups like 13thman.com, CFL Fans Fight Cancer, and the Box J Boys, among many others. Some full-size event barbecues, some right out of their backyards and off the back of their trucks, and even tiny hibachis were all adding to the smoked street-meat scents circling the ballpark grounds.

20,000 Flags, Black and Gold. Each one a different story to be told.

20,000 Flags, Black and Gold. Each one a different story to be told.

The lot was packed when I arrived, and the energy in the air across from the historical Ivor Wynne was a mix of enthusiasm and competition smiles. There were a lot of black and gold jersey’s from many generations of Tiger-Cats football, but there was plenty of Lions representation amongst the exuberant crowd as well.  The closest thing to a jacket with Cats colors I owned, was my  Bruins wind breaker; of which I was both harassed and hugged by a few happy drunkards that bled black and gold straight through. Many of them, like my father, were also steeltown fans to the core. That’s were I differed, and the  jersey I wore under my jacket, would engage itself in conversation and encourage comments of all sorts the rest of the afternoon in anticipation of the evenings matchup. The day truly was lined up to be a great day for football.

The weather, although overcast, was near perfect. There was next to know wind and it was warm enough, that it wasn’t long into the day, when my jacket found itself wrapped around my waist;  dawning my #12 jersey. ‘Brady sucks. Pats are going down. Dude, that is an awesome jersey. Pats are going to kick butt tonight.’ I just bought that jersey not too long ago, and I am hear to tell you I have never embarked on as much random conversation wearing it, as I did that Sunday. The same went for my friend wearing his black and silver Rice jersey. It’s fun listening to Raiders fans cry in each others beer. It seems not that long ago, before Bledsoe and CO started to turn the team around, that I was having similar conversations with New England fans. I guess it isn’t all that different from being a Cats fan last year, to a Tiger-Cats fan this year.

I found the CFL Fans Fight Cancer/13th Man tent first, where I bumped into a Hamilton fan I had befriended on Facebook via the ABNFF site (whom I had never before met), as well as a couple of other faces I knew from forums and other sites. It was great putting faces (or in some cases voices), to the names. I loaded a bun up with a couple large pieces of Canadian Bacon, and topped off my sandwich with condiments. I chatted with the group for awhile as I finished my lunch, and then headed over to finally check out the Box J Boys tent. I had been telling my neighbor that I was going to visit him since I first learned that he was part of  the Box J faithful. Finally I had seen first hand, what all the excitement was about – how the other fans lived.

I ran into a few friends I hadn’t seen in awhile, chatted up some Bruins loving strangers, before my friend finally arrived. We were able to enjoy another twenty minutes of the retreating Lot J crowd, before making our way into the stadium.

My freind Steve and I not watching the game.

My freind Steve and I not watching the game.

My friend was amazed at how clean the tailgating area was. He had been to a few Bills games over the years, so he was used to the disaster that is the surrounding area after those events. Thousands of empty beer cans scattered everywhere. I was able to take in my first NFL game late last December in support of keeping the Bills and the NFL south of the border, so I had a clear visual to compare, and Scott Park was spotless. I had talked to my neighbor about this point before. On the  BoxJBoys.ca  site, there is actually a tailgating etiquette page; or simply Tailgating 101, that discusses respecting the privilege Cats fans enjoy, being able to use Scott Park field for such a purpose. There is a mutual respect amongst the city, the Cats organization, and the usual pre-game suspects, and that respect shone through as the lot cleared out, and slowly moved into the adjacent stadium – leaving the grass as green as when the first vehicle entered the grounds.

I think this agreement, is something our city, our team, and our league, can be proud of. It’s a privilege I’d like hate to see our fans lose. I also hope that with the birth of a new stadium in the coming years, an open field; similar in nature to Scott Park, is made available with the same handshake agreement between all parties. I have only now been to one, but I plan on enjoying many more before the final memory is cast into our hearts at 75 Balsam Avenue North.

We made our way into the stadium and up to row W in section 21; the wind practically at our backs. The crowd was electric and the yellow towels generously donated by Blair Turner, added a nice touch to the already crazy playoff crowd. It reminded me a bit of a playoff hockey game with the white towels waving in the air. Except ours were gold.

Eight years seems like forever. The last playoff moment I can visualize is in 1998, when Ozzy booted a field goal in the dying seconds of the game to send us to face Calgary in the first of back-to-back Grey Cup appearances – both versus the Stamps. I was in the stands at Ivor Wynne with my father and uncles and cousins for that game. I remember all of us jumping for joy; high fives from everyone within reaching distance. Hugs and eyes welled up with tears. Our Tiger-Cats were heading to the Grey Cup.

There was a great group of college and university aged fans around my friend and I this past Sunday. They were having a lot of fun, yet were very respectable to everyone around them. That definitely added to the excitement and enjoyment of that day.

Sunday’s game was one of those afternoons, where enjoying the experience and catching up with family and friends, means a few missed plays. By the time we found our seats after half-time, a good portion of the third quarter was over. Between chatting amongst the group around us and browsing the crowd, it probably wasn’t until around half way through the fourth quarter, when suddenly I was oblivious to everything and everyone around me; focused on the score. We were down by eleven and nothing seemed to be clicking. This wasn’t the way this day was supposed to play out.

Final score after four.

Final score after four.

We did finally march down the field, but much to the dismay of the hungry Hamilton crowd, we settled for 3; left with an eight point deficit and the clock working against us.

Tick. Tick. Tick, and then suddenly, we started to drive down field once more. One last chance. One final opportunity in the dying seconds of the game, to change our destiny.

Touchdown! The roar of the stadium the moment we scored that major, wasn’t unlike that Ozzy moment all those years ago. We were still down by two so there was no choice but to go for the two pointer. The tension in the air was unbearable. They lined up. The snap, and the entire stadium was sent jumping into the air. High fives and gold flags flinging with sheer exuberance. We were going to overtime. Destiny was still within reach. This was now a story to reminiscence about, looking back at the many memorable moments at Ivor Wynnes Stadium. If a home playoff game wasn’t enough for the restless faithful, overtime was an added treat to an already amazing day.

The plays that followed that highlight real comeback, turned a wild hometown crowd, into a dead silence, but when the disappointment finally passed and the stadium started to clear, I couldn’t help but look back at the final game at Ivor Wynne last year, and what a difference a year makes. From a feeling of where do we go from here, to this team is going to compete for the cup in the coming seasons, did give Hamilton fans something to not only appreciate, but look forward to over the long, cold winter months.

The stands were almost empty by the time we started to make our way down the stairs. Being a part of the player appreciation at the end of the last home game of the year, has become something that I have enjoyed the past couple of seasons. There were many more fans that stayed behind this year, but last year was special in a different way. When the fans applaud their team as they exit the field for the last time – especially after a disappointing season like last year, it is a touching gesture of ultimate respect. At the end of the day, we love this team, and it’s comforting to see so many are behind this organization – win or lose.

One last meal in 2009

One last meal in 2009

As we turned to head down the stadium steps one final time in 2009, we noticed a flock of seagulls occupying our seats; enjoying one last IWS meal.

In the coming days, the lights will turn down for the winter months. The players will clean out their locker rooms, and Ivor Wynne will be prepared for off-season hibernation. I’ll drive by on my way to work every day until the first fan steps into the stands in 2010; waiting to sit atop the stadium. Looking out into the warm Hamilton air, and welcoming back our boys of summer.

Of course, the season isn’t over. There is still plenty of football to go; including the Grey Cup which Calgary will host, and perhaps have a chance to be a part of.

Thank-you to the Cats organization, and all those that took part in the game day experience at Ivor Wynne this year. It was a fun summer.

Congratulations also to Casey Printers and the Lions, and good luck to all teams in the next weeks division finals.

There are a few scenarios I’d like to see play out. Like Cavillio and the Als completing their remarkable season with a Grey Cup win, or the host town enjoying the rare thrill of hoisting a Grey Cup in front of their home crowd. Perhaps Saskatchewan adding to their recently rising cup titles. Even Casey Printers finally slipping on a Grey Cup ring would make a good story.

But there truly isn’t a bad matchup in this great league.

One last special thanks as well, to all those who participated in our ABNFF Your Stories giveaway’s this year. I truly enjoyed reading all of them, as I know so many readers enjoyed reading them.

Last Exit

Last Exit

Sunday truly was a beautiful day for football.

What a ride.

Labour Day – 2nd Annual ABNFF BBQ or My Brief Career as a Scalper

Labour Day Classic 2009 - A Sold-Out IWS.

Labour Day Classic 2009 - A Sold-Out IWS.

After weeks of planning, the big day was finally here.

Besides the excitement of our 2nd annual barbecue, I (and I am sure the rest of the fans from Hamilton and much of the CFL for that matter), was excited about the first sell-out crowd at Ivor Wynne Stadium since Labour Day 2005.

This had been only the second time that I have organized an event this large (although I used to sit on the Social Club Committee at my current company), so the anxiety level of wanting everything to turn out just right was high.

Enough food, enough prizes for the kids, making sure everything was cleared up with the block of tickets I had ordered, and that I sold all the tickets.

I had a few lessons learned from last year, like how to better organize the house and yard for possibly more than the 60 people we had last year. There were so many maybe’s that when I checked the numbers Sunday one last time, the confirmed total was right around the 70 mark that I had figured on. With all the maybes however, it could have been up to almost 100 people. So much for ‘a little smaller’ than last year.

As I am beginning to learn in my early second career of party planning, some confirmed guests have something come up, and a handful of maybes end up popping by. Then, there are some that just stop in for a drink or just to say hello to support what we are trying to accomplish with this event. This type of guest doesn’t eat or have any children, so they don’t really count when it comes down to number planning.

I was up until just after 1am Labour Day eve organizing the yard, filling grab bags for the kids – including a mini-football for each child. I at least had a mix of yellow and blue balls. After all, it isn’t about what team they like; Just that they develop a love for this game.

With our family reunion a few weeks ago getting rained out and moved to our place, our youngests first birthday party two weekends ago, and our eldests third this past Saturday, this was finally the last, and biggest, bash of the summer.

Many people (including my wife), had some great suggestions for the event. A few of them in particular, made a big difference. Like a friend of mine suggesting offering his 10×10 gazebo tent to offer a little extra shade, or my wife’s idea to ‘go big or go home’, and instead of using the garage television to watch the Labour Day games, why not roll the big screen into the yard and do it right. So we did.

I spent most of the morning doing a few last minute preparations and as is always the case, 1 o’clock came way too quickly. Just like last year, I was still finishing up a few last minute things when guests started to arrive, but overall, I would say we were much better organized than we were last year.

There were some talks of showers at different times throughout the day, but when our backyard started to fill and toys started to cover our living room floor, things were looking good weather wise.

Part of the morning I spent trying my best to eliminate the bee problem before the crowd arrived and the food started to attract the little beasts. They didn’t seem all that bad before I left to go to the game, but I hear there were a few ‘invited quests; Enough to annoy a party goer or two anyway.

As was the case last year, my intentions to take photos of the event fell by the wayside for the most part. It wasn’t until part way through the first half at IWS, that I realized I forgot to bring my camera to the game – or take any pictures in general throughout the afternoon thus far. A short while later, I realized I had a camera phone, so suddenly I was camera happy. Not the best quality, but handy during busy times. I almost need to assign taking photos to someone at these events. There is just no time with organizing raffles, BBQ’ing, and greeting guests, to snap photos.

I was lucky to have the help of my sister and father on the barbecue throughout the day, and between parents and the older children helping with the toy situation in our living room, and guests throughout the day helping straighten up our backyard, our place never made it to a state of disaster. One person even commented on that and the mutual respect and awareness amongst the guests, of the fact that there were families and children present.

Throughout the afternoon, we settled on tickets and who would sit where, did our Labour Day raffle and finally, headed over to Ivor Wynne Stadium around 3:30pm; leaving my poor wife alone with a house and yard full. Needless to say, I owe her one or two.

With a few last minute cancellations and additions of who wanted tickets, at the end of it all, I had three extra tickets. I actually made sure I had a few extras when I purchased them, figuring I would have no problems selling the tickets with a proposed sell-out.

I have probably sold extra tickets before or gave away tickets I had been given, but this would be my first taste of selling in a competitive marketplace. Our group of game goers, went ahead of me, and I proceeded to make my way around the stadium to find three people to join our group.

One of the first group of guys that I asked if they needed tickets, was actually a great bunch. Not only were they very pleasant, but they even offered me tips on how to get rid of my tics. I asked a few more people in the general vicinity of the mash of fans waiting in line and generally gathered around the Balsam gates, and then I noticed an older gentleman who I had seen at many home games, standing on the streets of Balsam with a sign stating he was looking for a ticket to the game.

I had been wanting to talk to him and give him a ticket, but I never really had the luxury of the money to send him through those gates. Well, this was my opportunity. Although I knew I needed to be selling these tickets, having three in my hand made it impossible not to go over and finally introduce myself and make the gesture.

With the jets having already flown by, the game about to start, and the rest of my group waiting inside, I  basically just mentioned my website, that he would be sitting with us, and that I would see him inside. I had hoped for the opportunity to talk to him further while taking in the game, but I did not see him again.

Now with two tickets left, I made my way up to Cannon and Balsam where the other scalpers hang out. Obviously as I would quickly find out, that was a scalping faux pas.

“You can’t sell on this corner. You’re not helping us sell our tickets. We have enough sellers on this corner.”

“I am not trying to help you sell your tickets buddy”, I said in a some-what cross, smart-alec manner.

Whatever, I thought to myself.

I found a couple of guys that showed some interest just further down closer to the stadium, but they were offering me $30 for the pair for $60 a piece tickets. Yes, I didn’t pay quite that much, but I at least expected to break even or close to it. I wasn’t looking at making money. I just wanted to ensure they were people that I felt would represent our group well. These guys weren’t those guys.

“You won’t sell them now. The game is about to start. Cut your loses. Get a haircut”, they continued to blurt out as I walked away. I was calm about it. It’s much easier when you are representing a cause to hold your tongue, even though I wanted to share their half of a peace sign with them as I walked away.

I then ran into a couple of Argo fans who had made the trip to the hammer. These guys were on a bit of a tight budget, and were looking to pay $10-$20 a ticket, but at this point, I just couldn’t do it. They were good guys though , so after making another unsuccessful trip around IWS, I stopped once again to talk to the guys in double blue.

I could see that they had found tickets, but I stopped to chat with them anyway. Turns out, they weren’t overly pleased with what they paid for the tickets they bought, and they proceeded to ask me if I would have now sold them the tickets for $20 a piece.

“Yes”, I told them with a smile. “I am getting tired of walking around this stadium.”

They both kicked themselves, but I knew how they felt.

Lesson Learned:

It doesn’t hurt to stay in one spot and let that scalper who initially turned your offer down, come back around to try one last ditch effort to get rid of his/her tickets. You might miss some of the game, but bottom line, they don’t want to be stuck with extra tickets.

I actually talked to the Argo fans for a little while, before trying one last time to part with my remaining pair. It’s a shame, because I knew we would have had fun with those guys, and it would have added a little diversity to our group. Or, should I say someone for the 17 of us Cats fans to heckle.

By this point, I had realized three things:

1. Scalping was a cut-throat, competitive business. I had no idea how these guys all made money, but most of them are in the same spot, every single game, year after year. I even recognize a couple of them from Bulldogs hockey games.

2. Many fans are very good at working scalpers. I am most definitely, not one of them.

3. I never wanted to be one.

Then, I met a couple who caught my attention, sitting on the grass across from the crowd still piling in through the Balsam gates. They had some food, a radio, their drinks, and were simply enjoying the energy of the stadium from their grass seats.

After some of the rude people I had met along my journey around the perimeter of the stadium, at this point I no longer cared about getting money for my tickets.

I asked the couple if they had tickets to the game.

“No we don’t”, they gently replied.

“Do you want tickets to the game”, I asked?

“We can’t afford it.”

“Enjoy the game” I said, and then told them about my website and mentioned that they would be sitting with me. They were very thankful for the tickets, and so I entered IWS with a very good feeling in my heart.

They made my day every time I looked back at their smiles as they enjoyed not only the 60th Annual Labour Day Classic between these two teams, but the first sell-out (and an oversell to top it off), at Ivor Wynne Stadium in 4 years.

There were a few firsts in our group pas well, and hopefully amongst those firsts, there are seconds and thirds and perhaps, maybe even life long fans. It was one couple from Oakville’s first game (Neil and Amy), and my friend and his wife brought their children to their first football game as well.

I left the stadium part way through the third quarter, to check in with all my other guests watching the big game in our backyard. Although it was hard to leave the energy of 30,000 plus fans, I was torn wanting to be in two places at once.

A handful of people came back to our place after game one, to watch the Western Classic in Calgary. I started the barbecue up one last time near the end of the Edmonton/Calgary game for a couple of us who suddenly realized we hadn’t eaten dinner. As it turned out, we actually had about a dozen or so hotdogs and probably triple that in buns leftover. I guess many kids forgo the bun.

The last guest left shortly after the second game ended. Once the last goodbyes were said, I relaxed with my dog and cat in a lawn chair in my backyard, and watched the highlights of the days games on Sports Centre on the big screen. I could certainly get used to a large television in my backyard.

I straightened up the yard a bit, rolled the television back into the house, and then sat outside for a short while longer to reflect on what truly was, a Beautiful Day for Football.

Thank-you to everyone, who played a part in making this such a great day. I think my children are getting a little too used to 20 plus kids in our living room. But who am I kidding. I am getting used to a back yard full of people.

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Photo Gallery coming soon.

Your Stories – Good Friends and Canadian Football

For the July 31st game in Hamilton, ABNFF gave away two tickets to the Friday evening game versus the BC Lions and the Hamilton Tiger-Cats at Ivor Wynne Stadium.

All that we asked in return, was for a photo of the winners at the game, and a short story about their game experience.

Brent from Hamilton was the winner, and he brought along his good friend, Stephen from Mississauga.

Click on the image below to view Brent’s story.

Contest DetailsWinning Postcard Story

Click on image above to read full story.

Click on image above to read full story.

2nd Annual ABNFF Freinds and Family Barbecue and the Labour Day ‘Your Stories’ Giveaway

It’s been a few weeks since I have posted a story of my own on the ABNFF site, but I assure you, football hasn’t been far from my mind.

I have been busy behind the scenes, preparing for our second annual A Beautiful Night for Football barbecue. Believe me, when I don’t write for a week or so, I really miss it, but although I love planning big parties, I get very stressed about everything turning out right and having enough time to plan everything I want to do for the event. So, this will probably be my last post (other than the Your Stories contest – see below), until after the dust has settled from the big event.

Last year, 50 or so family, friends, neighbors and children, packed our house and backyard on a beautiful, warm, Labour Day. My purpose for the event was to make a big deal out of this end-of-summer football tradition. To gather football fans and non-football fans alike, and get people excited about Canadian football in this city – in this country, and perhaps even win a new fan or two.

By inviting children and making it an annual event, my hope is that they(the kids), will continue to associate Labour Day not only for what it stands for, or just the day before school starts, but also a day that one of the greatest rivalry’s in sports, is played out in their very own backyards.

With the garage television on the back deck, last year we called my cousin and her then soon-to-be husband in Calgary, as they traveled west to enjoy the Stamps and Eskimos Labour Day battle.

After issuing prizes to all the kids and presenting our Labour Day Grand Prize package, 15 of us headed over to Ivor Wynne Stadium for the  Hamilton versus Toronto Labour Day Classic.

The party was such a huge success last year, that we thought we would try it again. Ticket sales are going good so with any luck, I just might have to call the Ticats ticket office to add a few more seats to our group. This year, we have increased the number of people partaking in this historic rivalry to at least 20, but I am hoping to have to make that call for more.

What makes this years party that much more special, is that a few people whom I have met through the A Beautiful Night for Football project, including both ‘Your Stories’ contest winners, are planning to attend this years event.

The initial Your Stories contest was the result of a pair of free tickets that were offered to me, and wondering what to do with them seeing as though I could not go to the game either. After receiving the first Your Story submission from Leigh and his daughter Lizzy, I desperately wanted to keep this ‘new’ tradition going.

For the BC game, I actually used my winnings from a family poker night, and dedicated those tickets in honor of our Canadian Football loving family. Once again, I was touched by what Brent Best put together from his experience (story to be posted on the site very soon).

Unfortunately with a young family at home, dishing out $50 or $60 a game to give away tickets isn’t something I have the luxury of doing, so the future of this contest is dependent on free tickets I receive. I usually do stumble upon a pair from time to time, so I am sure there is one or two more Your Stories giveaways to come this season.

I truly love reading Your Stories and I have a lot of fun with this giveaway.

Second, I received the message below a couple of weeks back, from a fan from Ottawa who was looking through various CFL dedicated sites, and happened to came across the ABNFF site. I have been very lucky to have been offered lots of advice and kudos for what I am trying to do with this site. Your ideas, suggestions, and support mean a lot. Thanks again Stefan, and thanks for your permission to post your email on the site. The CFL community is a very special one. I am honored to be a part of it.

Stefan’s email:

ABNFF Mailbag

ABNFF Mailbag

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“Hey Lawrence,

So tonight was a low-key night for me, and after watching that fabulous Eskies Stamps game on TV I was doing some web-surfing on the CFL. I found a great CFL historical site, and stumbled upon your website. At first it seemed like another blog site, simply posting links to articles written by professional writers. But as I delved deeper into the site, I truly was touched by your site.

Your passion for CFL ball radiates through the screen, and you are exactly why I love this league. I especially noted how you said you have eight unique affections for all teams in the league, nine including Ottawa. Ever since my dad took me to that first Als game back at McGill stadium in 1997, I’ve been a diehard Als fan ever since. But while I despise the Argonauts, I never lose sight of the fact that sports needs that rivalry, and I almost love the Argos for it. The banter between my friend who is a season ticket holder for the Argos, is priceless.

Me and my friends are now on our third year in a row of going to the Grey Cup, no matter where we are. I live in Ottawa, and my other friends live in Toronto. We are 23 and notably younger than most people who have made it an annual tradition to meet at the Grey Cup, but it is something I count down the days to every year.

So in essence, I just wanted to say thank you for producing such a lovely website. Keep up the fabulous work.

Regards,

Stefan
-Montreal Alouettes season ticket holder”

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Speaking of Your Stories, I will have two tickets to give away for the Labour Day game on Monday September 7th at 4pm, versus our rivals from across the QEW; the Toronto Argonauts.

Once again, all I am looking for is for you to tell me in 150 words or less, what the Labour Day tradition means to you, and for you to submit a story after the game, about your Labour day experience with a photo of you and your guest at the game.

The winner will receive two tickets in section 29 with our group, as well as an invite to the pre and after game party at our place, where we bring the big screen into the backyard to watch the west Classic between the Calgary Stampeders and the Edmonton Eskimos.

Because we have a lot of planning to do for the Labour Day Festivities, the deadline to send us your story is Tuesday September 1st at 11:59:59. I will notify the winner by noon Wednesday September 2nd, and you can pick up your tickets at our barbecue before the game.

Good luck. I hope to see you out-and-about on Labour Day. Send your submissions to stories@abeautifulnightforfootball.com

I am also hoping to stop by the CFL Fans Fight Cancer tent at the Tailgate Party at Scott Park (Lot J), across from Ivor Wynne Stadium, around 11am before the ABNFF barbecue get’s underway. Come by and say hi to the gang from CFL Fans Fight Cancer, and support this great cause. Click here for more info on their  event.

The CFL Fan Blog

Another ongoing blog post with links to  ‘your’ CFL stories as posted on CFL.ca
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The Expat Experience

Vanya Tucherov
Special to CFL.ca
August 19, 2009

http://www.cfl.ca/article/fan-blog-the-expat-experience

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Community, the CFL advantage

Susan Firbank
Special to CFL.ca
August 11, 2009

http://www.cfl.ca/article/fan-blog-community-the-cfl-advantage

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The Argonaut Experience

Karim Kanji
Special to CFL.ca
August 05, 2009

http://www.cfl.ca/article/fan-blog-the-argonaut-experience

Their Stories – The Hamilton Tiger-Cats’ DeAndra’ Cobb

Photos courtesy of Ron Scheffler - www.ronsheffler.com/blog

Photos courtesy of Ron Scheffler - www.ronscheffler.com/blog

A touching account of how a mentor can turn your life around. A story, that as Herb Zurbowksy writes,  “never should have been”.

Check out the Montreal Gazette story here.

View more photos of DeAndra’ Cobb taken by Ron Scheffler, with captions by the Hamilton Spectator’s Ticat beat writer, Drew Edwards . Click here.

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Through the Canadian Football League career of DeAndra Cobb:

DeAndra’s Bio on Ticats.ca - http://ticats.ca/roster/show/id/2649
Michigan State Bio – http://www.msuspartans.com/sports/m-footbl/mtt/cobb_deandra00.html
Wikipedia Profile: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DeAndra%27_Cobb

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CFL Career starts week #2 of the 2009 season versus the Lions at BC Place

Week #2 Offensive Player of the Week:http://cfl.ca/video/index/id/7689
Week #5 Offensive Player of the Week: http://cfl.ca/video/index/id/7689
Getting noticed – July 31st, 2009:
http://www.esksfans.com/forum/showthread.php?t=23448
Interview on Ticats.ca – Aug. 6th, 2009: http://www.ticats.ca/video/index/id/7755
1,000 Yards Rushing – Oct 31st, 2009 (@2.48 of highlight reel): http://cfl.ca/video/index/id/9653